Tawuran? Udah Ga Jaman …. #

Meski sudah sering terulang dan memakan korban, sepertinya beberapa mahasiswa di Makassar, Sulawesi Selatan tak jera-jeranya melakukan tawuran. Dalam kejadian terakhir, tawuran di Universitas Negeri Makassar, telah menyebabkan 2 mahasiswa tewas. Jumlah mahasiswa tewas sebanyak 2 orang menunjukan bahwa tawuran itu sudah diluar batas sifat-sifat manusia yang berpikir normal. Kalau terjadi tawuran antargang mungkin kita bisa memaklumi jatuh korban tewas, namun kalau korban tewas dalam tawuran antar mahasiswa, kita mengelus dada. Mahasiswa sebagai orang intelektual kok bisa sejahanam itu, di mana logika berpikir yang selama ini lebih ditonjolkan. (Dikutip Dari Ardi Winangun – detikNews)

Lagi-lagi ada berita yang membahas tentang tawuran dikalangan remaja! Tentu ini bukan lagi hal yang baru lagi ditelinga kita, hal ini sudah jamak dilakukan oleh para pelajar. Dan ternyata tawuran bukan hanya dilakukan oleh para pelajar sekolah dasar, menengah pertama dan menegah atas, tetapi Mahasiswa juga masih ada yang melakukan kegiatan yang sia-sia ini. Tidak Hanya membuang waktu sia-sia tapi juga tidak ada manfaat yang didapat.
Banyak pertanyaan mengapa sehingga mereka suka tawuran ? Dan saya pernah mendengar jawaban dari salah seorang dari siswa yang pernah melakukan tawuran bahwa dengan tawuran akan dilihat sekolah/kelompok mana yang hebat dan ada juga yang mengatakan bahwa tawuran yang dilakukan karena adanya dendam antar kelompok pelajar di sekolah! Inilah jawaban yang pernah saya dengar. Apakah ini prestasi yang membanggakan? Aneh, yang buruk kok yang dinilai hebat???
Yah, dari beberapa opini tersebut dapat membuktikan bahwa sudut pandang kelompok pelajar yang “hobi” tawuran adalah demikian buruknya. Inilah yang harus di ubah yaitu point of view atau mindset dari mereka.
Memang bukan pekerjaan yang ringan tetapi jika segalanya saling mendukung akan lebih mudah. Mendukung yang dimaksud adalah mencakup aspek-aspek penting, seperti peran serta keluarga, lingkungan pergaulan dan juga pada pendidikan kewarganegaraan yang diajarkan disekolah/diperguruan tinggi. Akan lebih baik jika para pelajar yang “hobi” tawuran ini mendalami dari butir-butir pancasila, bukan hal yang mustahil suatu saat nanti tawuran hanya akan menjadi legenda dinegeri ini.
Bukan hanya itu tetapi hal ini kan berpengaruh pada pembentukan karakter bangsa Indonesia yang benar-benar berkarakter Pancasila.
Kita tidak perlu khawatir lagi dengan yang namanya KKN apalagi yang namanya Tawuran.
Kita tidak bisa hanya bermimpi, menunggu segalanya akan menjadi baik, tetapi perubahan berada ditangan kita. Oleh karena itu mari kita mulai dari hal yang paling sederhana pada diri kita sendiri hingga pada hal yang lebih kompleks.

3 thoughts on “Tawuran? Udah Ga Jaman …. #

  1. Education does not cure a need for attention getting skills or physiological issue. Bad public skills, insanity, or simply bad mental health requires treatment with education. Bad public skills and mental health good and bad does not know numbers in groups, ages, cultures, anything but human. Humans with any mental health issue must get treatment along with education. I would say men suffer this brawling to the death because it has been role modeled globally that men do not have feelings of honesty with other people and remain manly/publicly accepted by a majority of men. In the past male powers have role modeled they are above weak in all things, agree with this or die. The male gender has been suffering this for 1000’s of years. It is up to strong males to work closely with them to help heal this end result of global bad male role modeling. Men just like women are human. They can’t carry the loads for all the women and children too.

    Men must get to an acceptable place where they can let women and children carry more loads on their own with their ongoing guidance more rather then dictating that they are more then human. Throughout history the male has been determined to be more then human and those failures have been documented everywhere.

    To overcome this men must learn how to build personal and professional support systems without being embarrassed. They have to be allowed to find their place again without degrading their gender anymore. Claiming to be more then human and expecting all men to be just the same without ongoing guidance is cruel and unusual punishment for simply being born male.

    Children are placed typically with women parents for one reason or another. Men and women need to have guidance form both genders equally to know each other better. Gender discovery unobstructed from immaturity has kept from true personal growth. Dictating time limits to learn , develop and grow for another is also bad for personal growth too. These time limits and preferences if not harmful to another need to be promoted in more of a positive then negative.

    Being a certain age does not mean you have gained enough experience you want for personal growth. Education systems telling all how many years and only certain subjects from certain curriculum’s it takes to learn ABC and 123 and be competent is a good example of what not to do. It does not take 10 plus years to be good at basic education in anything. Experience more desire in education through more experience with your loved ones is the answer. Let your loved ones guide your education not some dictating government. If you don’t desire the education, you will rebel against it. If you haven’t experienced a need for it, then why force it?

    Personal growth and choice development never stops and you can’t ever be just done. Growing up never stops regardless of your age. If anything the older you get, the more personal growth you need and not more ABC’s of much more.

    Men and women need to do more to educate their children then just the ABC’s of life. More then read a book pass a test and give me a report on it. It obviously doesn’t work. They need to spend more time living all the ABC’s in life with them at all ages. They also need to live the children’s choices of those ABC’s with them too. Tell the children their choices at young ages are good by joining in them with them. The younger the child the more non verbal communication is needed.

    Parents not educators are the one’s children look up to, love, and respect more to teach them and prepare them for life. Males more then females have been guilty of failing here more then any other parenting failure. They simply forgot to include themselves as needed and loved just as much for their sons and daughters as the kids do their mothers.

    I say parents stop sitting around and bitching what all the schools have at all levels and become your own school or go with them. Parents start joining your children in their educations instead of just dictating it too. Education does not know age. It never stops. The younger they are they more they need the non verbal communication of you sharing more of those educations with them while it is happening. Not just bring that report card home.

    To get through a global war well off, men must recover by experiencing more together. More experiences with the other gender, other cultures, other ages. They can’t just experience all by themselves and just know what the rest want in life for themselves. Otherwise the men are always facing war with no satisfactory ends. Men must learn that all people of all ages and heritages always disagree.

    War’s, disagreements, and rebellions don’t know borders. Disagreement that leads to hate and fear always starts a war but never has resulted in ending them. Public or not they still go on. It can’t be one way or no way for much at all. Men must learn that one way can’t cover more then their own. Otherwise they face being responsible for starting another war via just a disagreement. That is all they will be publicly responsible for while they preach, in fact demand, publicly everything but. PETTY LEADING TO ISSUE, TERRITORIAL, AND/OR GLOBAL WARFARE.

    This is the male public failure that can’t be allowed anymore via men being accepted more as what they are. Humans with feelings too.

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